If I send a massage to a friend who is far away from me on MSN, I will receive the reply after just a few seconds, which is very soon and convenient. But while the chatting speed is very fast, I will slowly lose the interest of conversation. And at most of the time when I am chatting with someone, even with someone I've been always wanting to talk to, cheap
snapback hats, I will lose my words and don't know what to say during this fast-paced conversation, and then the conversation will be finished with a boring ending. So I seldom talk to my friends on MSN, although it's very convenient.
Compared to online chatting, I would like to write letters. Though it will take more time, energy and money, the moment I receive a letter I will be very happy because the friend whom I am missing so much is missing me at the same time. And during the writing time, cheap oakleys I could concentrate on talking to your friend and write down all the words I want to tell her. Even if there is a long distance between us, our friendship has been promoted instead of becoming estranged.
Tuesday, March 7, 2017
Love or marriage or both
In the Integreted English class, Miss Li had a discussion with us on "love and marriage" after showing us a movie on the theme of it. She posed few questions about how do we define love, what is a marriage means to us and whether we want to tie the knot in the future. I haven't given much profound thought to "love and marriage" before, however, cheap nfl jerseys, I think they are worth talking and taking account of, so I asked my friend Lance for his opinions on the topic when we met on Fright evening.
I asked what his choice is if he had the chance to inherit a fortune of two billion Us dollars on condition that he must get married at once and has children within five years. His answers surprised me at first but then I understand, he believes in true love but not really a wedding type, which means he probably won't be married in the future and he made it extremely clear without hesitation that he didn't want kids. cheap hats, He said that he had shouldered enough responsibilities and certainly didn't want more, he just wants to spend the rest of his life freely without fetters. We may find it hard to agree with him but it is indeed the typical North-European attitude towards love and marriage.
Lance told me that people from North European country like Norway, a majority of them don't want to get married and have kids at all, some will only have one kid in their late 30s or 40s and others may just adopt one, so there exist s serious negative population growth in North Europe. I think his view is similar with that of the Russians. When I was in Russia, wholesale jerseys, I saw most parents with kids under five years old are in their 40s and some newly married couples seem to be in their 30s. I can tell from conversations with few Russian people that their views of love and marriage differ greatly from those of Chinese people. They hardly take marriage very seriously and they don't consider it as a new start in life with more responsibilities to bear, instead, they hold that marriage is just a formality, if two people truly love each other, they can be together without secular shackles, when they never feel for each other any more, they just be apart and find another Mr or Miss Right. My friend from St. Petersburg told me that parents of his classmate are never married for 24 years and they just keep the relationship of lovers instead of couples. While in China, people value families and children, cheap fake oakleys, they attach great importance to the "human condition" and think highly of passing on the genetic materials. Sometimes, they may sacrifice a lot to endure unhappiness and resolve conflicts in an effort to protect the family and the kids.
The slogan of North europeans is "love freely" while that of the Chinese is"love responsibly". As for me, I firmly believe in true love but I prefer leaving things the way they are. Why not let nature take the course?
I asked what his choice is if he had the chance to inherit a fortune of two billion Us dollars on condition that he must get married at once and has children within five years. His answers surprised me at first but then I understand, he believes in true love but not really a wedding type, which means he probably won't be married in the future and he made it extremely clear without hesitation that he didn't want kids. cheap hats, He said that he had shouldered enough responsibilities and certainly didn't want more, he just wants to spend the rest of his life freely without fetters. We may find it hard to agree with him but it is indeed the typical North-European attitude towards love and marriage.
Lance told me that people from North European country like Norway, a majority of them don't want to get married and have kids at all, some will only have one kid in their late 30s or 40s and others may just adopt one, so there exist s serious negative population growth in North Europe. I think his view is similar with that of the Russians. When I was in Russia, wholesale jerseys, I saw most parents with kids under five years old are in their 40s and some newly married couples seem to be in their 30s. I can tell from conversations with few Russian people that their views of love and marriage differ greatly from those of Chinese people. They hardly take marriage very seriously and they don't consider it as a new start in life with more responsibilities to bear, instead, they hold that marriage is just a formality, if two people truly love each other, they can be together without secular shackles, when they never feel for each other any more, they just be apart and find another Mr or Miss Right. My friend from St. Petersburg told me that parents of his classmate are never married for 24 years and they just keep the relationship of lovers instead of couples. While in China, people value families and children, cheap fake oakleys, they attach great importance to the "human condition" and think highly of passing on the genetic materials. Sometimes, they may sacrifice a lot to endure unhappiness and resolve conflicts in an effort to protect the family and the kids.
The slogan of North europeans is "love freely" while that of the Chinese is"love responsibly". As for me, I firmly believe in true love but I prefer leaving things the way they are. Why not let nature take the course?
Wednesday, March 1, 2017
Write before the lamptern festival.
It started to rain yester evening after I backed from work. It was colder as the temperature down and the rain. I was seeing the outside being wet, it was not heavy raining.
Today it is sunshine day. Even it is colder. I just browse some news from the internet that the temperature will be down extremly at 8 degree at weekends. It would be really cold in southern China. Hopefully, The upcoming cold weather will not make people felt not comfortable.
I would like to have a time of mountain climbing since it past a long time since my last climbing. Hopefully I could insist to the top of the mountain, which has more than 1600 step if my memory is not wrong. It is surely not an easy work for me as what I said that I look weak and I have long time not doing excersize too.
This Saturday is the lantern festival. It is the last festival for the Chinese new year. May joy and warmest in your heart during the lantern festival.
I still remember there is a custom in our hometown that family set pieces of suger cane in the back sides of the door. But I do not know what it is the function to do that.
Wow I looks like very expecting for the weekends now. Not only for the lamptern festival but I have worked for almost one week because there was working days for last saturday and sunday. So it become very long for this week.
Society developed a lot. Festival may become a ceremory. But, I would like to say if there is some one in your heart, the festival is always with concernning and best wishes even we may really speak out how much we love our family members. However, why not pick up the phone to call to the ones we care about if we are in far distance. It is easy and simple, but it is stilll with our warmest care and best wishes.
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